Although this may seem like old news to many people here in Texas, it’s surprising to see how many people do not plan for their estate until it’s almost too late. Some of us feel the morbidity of it all-writing a will while you’re still in your prime-but others haven’t begun writing their wills because they simply don’t know where to start.

Most people usually start seriously considering a will when either someone close to them passes or they are told that they have a serious medical condition that could greatly reduce their time here on earth. No matter what gets you to start thinking about estate planning, sometimes people get so worried about ensuing arguments over their estate decisions that they put off making a plan to avoid the headache.

For those who find themselves in this situation, some estate planning exerts will advise you to calm your anxieties by simply thinking about one simple thing: give to those who you hold dear. Once you set aside the daunting idea of separating your belongings and financial assets equally amongst your beneficiaries, you allow yourself the freedom to show how much you cared about someone through the act of giving.

A majority of people, when planning their wills, focus most of their efforts on dividing their estate, often times completely forgetting about including their medical wishes as well. They’re another important part of any will that not only help ensure that your burial wishes are followed but help give directions to family members on how to follow through with your wishes.

Source: The New York Times, “In Writing Her Will, It’s the Little Things That Matter,” Laura Holson, Nov. 13, 2012